Monday, November 29, 2010

Why we are more conscious about our children?

It is rather more difficult to answer, especially for a reason that so many factors are involved in it. If we go little behind to our own childhood, still we remember that between five children, it was very difficult for our parents to pay that much attention, which was expected at that time from them. Even today I remember when I was in seventh standard. That was the day of my final exams results. However, I stood first in the class and just ran towards my home to tell them about my success because at that time it was very biggest thing for me. When my report card was in my father’s hand, to my surprise he told me that very first time he came to know that I was in seventh standard.

Now, just imagine regarding the happiness of that child whose father was not aware about the son that in which class he was studying. So as the days passed and we were in place of our father, we have decided that history should not repeat. That was the very first factor, which I took it very seriously.

Regarding other factors, the same can’t be narrated at a time. In fact, what I have observed now a days that parents are very conscious. That is not a case but these things are related with their feeling. They might be thinking about the facilities, which were not available to them at that time when they were kids. It is very obvious, as every parent like their kid very much, as he or she may be which a universal truth is.

However, we should be little bit conscious before providing ample facilities. It may be possible that their some demands may no be having that much importance or such demands may be only due to reason that some other guy is having it. At this juncture, it is our duty to let them explain regarding the needs of the thing which they are demanding for. It is our duty to realize them about our hard earned money. It’s very true that we are having lot to do for them but before fulfilling it, little care must be taken.

1 comment:

  1. Sir! you took me to my past. Its not been so many years though. I was in fifth and i stood first in all over kolkatta. when My dad saw me in the news paper he called my mom and conformed that in which class I am in. That is not the matter of you dont know about you kids that what are they doing ? This is matter of Time, people r very busy in their life doesn't matter they r busy with their works or partying out but they are busy. These days I see, people are being more health conscious not paying attention on kids. They really need to pay attention on the kids. At least I have decided for my kids future.